If you are seeking advice from the indwelling Holy Spirit Of God, and his advice seems to be hateful, derogatory, full of fear, or if he asks you to do something that you would not want done to you, that is clear evidence that you have not connected to the indwelling Holy Spirit Of God. You are undoubtedly speaking with a demonic spirit.
Advice from the indwelling Holy Spirit Of God will always be advice that is full of love, that gives joy, and that gives peace. If you would not want the same advice given to someone about you, it is almost guaranteed that you are not speaking with the indwelling Holy Spirit Of God. He resides deep in your solar plexus, not in your head. Focus deep within your solar plexus (the center of your chest) when you seek to speak with him. The Lord God Almighty is El Shaddai.
The Lord God Almghty El Shaddai