Honest assessments require care and deliberation before being delivered. They require that the assessor have intimate knowledge of the circumstances, and a desire to deliver truthful responses to any question posed. In contrast, assessments that are designed to keep people motivated often are tinged with deception. They have an ulterior motive that does not accord with truth.
When the Lord God Almighty gives assessments, he delivers them without embellishment, without hope, and without disdain for any result that is justified. He tells it like it is, and he lets the chips fall where they may. He says to everyone who is in the kingdom of God, if you want to be married, there are at least two people currently in the kingdom of God who can be your spouse. You have no reason to be unmarried.
Speak now to the Holy Spirit Of God who is in you, and ask him to lead you to your perfect match. Your perfect match is not the person who looks the way you look, but rather, the person who calls you to be more than you think you can be. He or she is the person who sees you as if you were on a pedestal, even though you may see yourself as less than perfect.
The Lord God Almighty El Shaddai