One of the most popular sayings is that you get what you give. It means that how you treat others is precisely how you may be treated. It also means that eventually, the ether recalibrates itself.
When you consider how you wish to be treated, think about whether or not you want to belittle yourself, insult yourself, call yourself names that are derogatory, or speak about yourself in a defamatory manner. God expects you to genuinely repent, and to see others as you see yourself.
The Lord God Almighty El Shaddai